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Wednesday, February 11, 2009.

LET'S CALL IT A CHANGE! ü


CHANGE is the only permanent thing in this world. I’m sure a million times you’ve heard this statement. But indeed it’s true and factual. People perceive change in two different faces. One is in the positive side and the other in the negative one. Some may be gratified and satisfied to accept change while some may not be pleased as for their lost love and wish that things would remain the same as before. Some may blame this as culprit for them being gloomy and murky but some may thank this for a job well done. So what is really in this six-letter wordCHANGE that everyone perceived to be an enormous upshot in their lives?


Most people change just to depart from their problems, not enough to solve them. They change just enough to escape. They say, “I’m OK now- I do not have to do anything else.” Unfortunately, this is like painting a rusty car. Sooner or later, the paint wears off and rust has only gotten worse.


Most people want to change their circumstances to improve their lives instead of changing themselves to improve their circumstances. Initially, one must be first changing himself and everything will follow. One can never control circumstances but rather changing oneself and one’s perspective towards such situation, then upturn will came to be carrying out.


Most people do the same thing the same way and expect different results. It is really ironic that people keep on doing the same thing and yet they expect different results. It should be that if people want something they’ve never had, they have to do something they have never done. Just be determinate to take the risk.


Most people are unwilling to pay the immediate price of change. This is because they do not change and pay the ultimate price. Change is merely uncomfortable. It is unsettling. Sometimes, pain is downright painful. However, in the long run, the alternative is often much, much worse.


Most people see changes as hurtful thing that must be done, instead of a helpful thing that should be done. Not all change is good. Some changes are based on bad ideas, and others are self-serving to the people who enacted them. But we cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are. When change has become successful, we can look back and call it GROWTH”.


CHANGE HAPPENS. “You can’t step into the same river twice.” This is the metaphor of a river to explain the constancy of change. If one stands on a river’s embankment and looks at it intently, he would see that the water flows through a river all the time. The river may appear the same but the water flowing through it at that point of the river will always be different.

Change happens whether we like it or not. If we do not commence or be part of change, it is often propel upon us. However, many refuse to accept this reality. If we are successful, we think, “If it is not broken, why fix it?” If we fail, we think nothing can help us succeed. Sometimes, we can’t comprehend that what worked yesterday, may not work today. And what could be massive today may be tomorrow’s resounding success.

Perhaps the answer to these challenges is to simply step into the river ourselves. Immerse ourselves in the river of change and in so doing change the “river” and ourselves as well.

Change, reinvent, innovate yourself and you will find yourself “going with the flow” and blooming at work and in your life. It’s not too late to innovate the brand new you. As long as it is for the better, it would be healthy.


ACCEPTANCE. Be keen in accepting change and understand that things may not be as the way they. Realize that you can reinvent yourself. There are many ways or fields were you can add to your knowledge and may acquire also some skills you don’t have before. Improve your behavior and attitude towards life for the better you.

LEARN FROM YOUR FAILURES. When you are boxed into a corner, you will be able to think of other ways or solutions to your dilemma. When we learn from our failures, they become our best teachers to success. Such learning will teach us what to do and to not do to not commit the same mistake again. Don’t be afraid to take again the risk, if you wouldn’t try, you will never ever succeed. Fear of committing mistakes can prevent you from trying new ideas and as well success.

TREASURE. Be aware of the blocks that made all the changes. Treasure your thoughts and ideas, a stream of thought can lead you towards a river of ideas on how you can improve yourself. Treasure also the people around you who are always there for you and staying the same through your ups and downs, those seemed to be the real persons in your life or so-called your “true friends”.

BE HAPPY. After taking all things up, it’s now time to be happy. It’s not right to just sit at one corner and be sad the rest of your life. Life is too short to be miserable. Enjoy life and take all the possible chances.


The water in the river of change may be cold at first but once you are there, you are sure to find a whole new beautiful world. Start going out of your shell because sometimes when you are so comfortable with where you are doing, you might tend to miss out on better opportunities. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sail.
EXPLORE. DREAM. DISCOVER. DARE TO CHANGE.




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